I have been asked many times why so I like Big Girls so, I decided to create this insight to answer that question.

The reason why I like big girls or even bigger girls is because I have always have been attracted to them. There is nothing sexier then a woman that not only feels comfortable in her own skin, but has that confidence to show it. Ever since I can remember I have been drawn to big girls. There is just something about a big girl. It is her confidence, the way she dresses, and the way that she can carry her attitude. 

I want to say that me liking or wanting a big girl is not a fetish. Not a phase that I am going through. Not something that is fashionable, not something I keep in the closet (obviously), and/or I want in certain situations, and I’m not exploring. It’s not something that I am just trying out for a while. Its not an obsession, to a self serving ego boost, or even a horny fascination. This is something that I actively seek out and want. This is a lifestyle choice that I have made a long time ago. I am physically, mentally, and emotionally attracted to a big girl.

My ultimate fantasy woman would have long hair (no longer then the middle of her back). Pouty lips, a French manicure, a nice big chest, with wide hips and a big butt to fill it all. Not forgetting a nicely padded tummy. I would like for her to act like a lady in public, but a freak in the bedroom. Someone that isn’t afraid to take charge and to be submissive too. Someone that can dress in there grubbies while working outside or in the garden. And spends the afternoons getting a manicure and pedicure. Later that night wearing a formal dress. She would be someone that can communicate and tell me everything about herself. And know there will be no judgment, only acceptance! To have that person tell me there inter most thoughts and know that I am not going to run away or point my finger with guilt about having thoughts, feelings and past actions. Allow her to see that she does have a soft place to land. 

I am not a leg man. I am not a butt man, and I don’t ever consider myself a boob man. I feel that it all needs to fit together. How can you focus on one part and ignore the others? I love it all. If I had to choose a body part of a woman to claim, I don’t feel I could make that decision. What I mean is, how can I decide?

I love to be able to get into someone completely. Allowing her to see that I am not only dedicated to her, but also faithful to our relationship. I enjoy showing I am a true hopeless romantic at heart. I would support her in whatever her hobbies are and what she likes. Whatever her hobby is I would be there by her side. At the same time, I would like the same kind of support in my hobbies.

I am not only physically available, but I am mentally and emotionally available too. How many guys can say that about themselves? I would like to think I am easy to approach and easy to talk too. I feel that I need to become the person that I want to attract. So if I want a fun person, then I need to be a fun person. 

I have learned that body image and self image are interlinked. They should not be. It is wrong, and it is unhealthy. People that are overweight typically feel worse about themselves. They think that they are not good enough people. And are being critical of themselves. That is wrong. You can be just as loving, caring, giving, intelligent, and contribute to your own life as if you are unattractive or attractive. We are all unique in our own way. Some have God given talent and others learn over time. We are all unique in our special way with our skills, abilities, and our characteristics that uniquely define who we are.

I have heard some women say “ well, can you handle all of this”? And the answer is “Yes, I can”!!! I feel that the real question is, can you handle all of me? I have never gone out with a so called skinny girl. So I know what I am doing and how too do things.

I have a great admiration for a big girl! Big girls do it better. Big girls do it harder!

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